ARE YOU PREPARING YOUR BIRD FOR THE FUTURE? by Bonnie Kenk
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Under the right conditions, i.e., good nutrition, good lighting, lots of entertaining
activities and lots of love, parrots are very long-lived creatures. Let's face it, unless
you got your bird when you were a small child, it will probably outlive you. Are you
preparing your bird now to live in someone else's home?
PEAC frequently takes in birds that have come from
"dysfunctional" home environments. Some of these birds adapt readily to life in
a strange home. Most do not. Not only are they depressed, but most are extremely unhappy
when they find out that what worked for them in their dysfunctional home isn't gonna cut
it anymore.
One bird in particular prompted this article. He lived with someone for 14 years. In
his 15th year of life, he was sold to a family with small children. Because he wasn't
properly prepared to live in a strange home, he ended up biting one of the children and
eventually was turned over to PEAC. This bird was obviously allowed to have the run of his
house for the first 14 years. He was extremely territorial around his cage and would only
come out on his own. Any hand placed in or near the cage while he was in it was promptly
bitten.
His first owner wrote 12 pages of instructions on his likes and dislikes. Her
instructions are almost impossible to duplicate. Her lifestyle was such that it was
conducive to his "needs." Most people could not provide for him in the manner he
was accustomed to. Therefore, he became a biting, screaming maniac.
At this point we should discuss the difference between being predictable and being
consistency. I recently had a conversation on this topic which caused me to consider the
difference. With pet birds, actually any pet for that matter, you DO NOT want to become
predictable, however, you MUST be consistent.
You are predictable when you get up at exactly 5:30 each and every morning to feed your
bird. You are consistent when you get up around 5:30 each and every morning to feed your
bird. You are predictable when you get up at exactly 5:30 each and every morning, feed
your bird, then take him out and place him on his perch at exactly 6:00. You are
consistent when you get up around 5:30 each morning, feed your bird then place him on his
perch between 6:00 and 6:30. You are predictable when you walk in the door from work and
immediately take your bird out of his cage and place him on his perch. You are consistent
when you walk in the door from work, greet your bird verbally, go about your business,
then take him out and place him on his perch. One more example...You are predictable when
you place your hand in your bird's cage, say UP, the bird gets on your hand, you say DOWN,
and he is placed in the exact same place at the exact same time each day. You are
consistent when you place your hand in the cage, say UP, the bird gets on your hand, and
you take a walk with him, or put him in the kitchen while you fix his food for tomorrow or
some other such activity. You are consistent; not predictable when you say UP each and
every time you pick your bird up and DOWN each and every time that you put your bird down.
Enough. I think you get the idea.
Can you see how being predictable is probably not a good way to prepare your bird for
the future in a different home? For some of us (me included), it's easier to be
predictable. If you do the same thing at the same time each day, you won't forget to do
it. Predictability simplifies life. I used to be the most predictable person I knew. When
I worked, my fellow workers teased me because you could set your watch by my actions. When
I fell in love with African Greys, it took me years before I actually acquired one. I just
knew that I was the type of owner who would create a feather-picking maniac. And, you know
what? I probably was. But I so badly wanted a grey that didn't feather pick that I decided
to change. So, I became less and less predictable until today, you can no longer set your
watch by me. I actually find I can accomplish much more with my day without the strict
time lines to follow. And my 5-year-old, Moe has never even considered picking a feather.
To put it in a nutshell, what I'm trying to say is, it's not wise to structure your day
around your bird. Sure, you always need to attend to his needs, which include time out of
his cage with his human(s). Just don't do it according to a strict time schedule. Birds
need consistency, not predictability. Prepare him for the time when you're no longer
around and he has to cope with life with another human. If you do this now, his transition
to another home will be oh so much easier.
It is a good breeder's responsibility to properly socialize baby parrots in order to
prepare them for life in our homes. It is a parent's responsibility to prepare human
children for life as adults. And it is our responsibility to prepare our parrots for life
without us.
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